Relationships and Marriage: My Life Experiences
As I look back over 40+ years of my life, I now realize one of the greatest truths: being alone is often the most important path to discovering who you truly are inside.
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Growing up, like many, I was shaped by society’s programming. We are taught from an early age that we need a boyfriend or girlfriend, that going to prom is a rite of passage, and that life’s success means getting married, having children, building a family, and securing a career job. That was the roadmap handed to most of us. But my journey did not follow that map.
I grew up in a dysfunctional family. After going through radiation and chemotherapy at a young age, my physical appearance changed, and I never dated during those formative years. In college, I had a painful experience that further isolated me. I felt like an outsider. Not only because of my past and appearance but also because I was waking up to a different truth, a different way of seeing life.
Over time, I became an observer of the world around me. I saw how people lived, what they chased, and the deep undercurrents of pain, judgment, and rejection many were carrying. I did not always engage with life in the way society expected because all I witnessed and experienced was emotional hurt and disconnection.
Yet somehow, I was also fully alive. I lived in this 3D world, yes, but I also saw life through a higher lens. I began to awaken to my spiritual self. I began shifting my consciousness toward a life filled with inner peace, abundance, and unconditional love. And over the years, layer by layer, I let go of all that no longer served my soul's growth.
By June 2025, I found myself transitioning from a traditional 3D job into my divine spiritual mission. But before I could step into that role fully, I had to learn a powerful lesson through my last relationship, my marriage.
That relationship, like many, began with mirrored energies. I attracted my wife because, at the time, our frequencies aligned. We were both living in the energies we carried then. But as I evolved, as I healed and shed the trauma and began to raise my vibration, I saw clearly what I was not. I saw her toxic behavior, her narcissism, and emotional patterns. And I saw my own. behavior. My people-pleasing, my wounds, my desire to fix others.
As she stayed the same, I began to grow. And I realized something profound: if we are to evolve into our highest spiritual selves, into our Light Body, we must not only release physical things that no longer serve us, but also release relationships that are no longer in alignment with our highest path.
Letting go of that marriage was not easy. But now, with time, healing, and divine support, I hold compassion for her. I hold compassion for the version of me that attracted that relationship. And I honor both of our journeys. She was a mirror, a teacher. Her presence showed me how far I had come and what I was no longer willing to accept.
Now, over three years since that chapter closed, I have stepped fully into my light. I have reclaimed my energy. And I can finally say I have found myself.
From this space of clarity, I am ready to help others find themselves too, through the pain, through the healing, and into the joy of becoming whole again.
If you would like to have a discussion to help you find clarity, please contact me.
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Compassion, Light and Love,
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Gregory
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